14 Oct 2011
Are you a single Lady and tired of speed/internet dating. Have you had it, with random hook ups and boring blind dates? Is your favourite pass time a foodgasim? Have you passed your sell by date?
Oprah had Dr Phil. I give you the “The Scarlet Pimpernel”
If your answer was yes to all of above! You might need more help, than"The Scarlet Pimpenernel” can provide.
We recently had a brief Q&A and here is his insight, to some questions you might have as a Single Lady!
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me: Where do you think the best place is for a single lady to find a guy?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: so you looking for single guys?
me: hmmm. advise
The Scarlet Pimpernel:but that shouldn’t be so hard? are they not every where?lol
The Scarlet Pimpernel: best place to find single guys - the world.lol
me: hahahaha
The Scarlet Pimpernel: it’s harder to find single girls
me: Who do you think should be the Hunter, The Man or the Woman?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: aint nothing wrong with a woman dropping hints, but then the guy should fill in the rest
me: true. Insightful..
The Scarlet Pimpernel: that’s how I roll.lol
me: What is the dress code required when you on the hunt?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: less is more :P
me: Really!
The Scarlet Pimpernel: depends what kinda guy you looking for. If you looking for hook-ups then dress slutty, if you looking for serious then, dress more conservatively
me: What is the common mistake single ladies do?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: let me think..
They talk about their problems. A guy wants a carefree girl not problems. So if off the back they complain about shit, he can already think "nah, this chick is a moaner"
me: hmmm
The Scarlet Pimpernel: well, that’s what I think anyways. I like carefree, cute whimsical typa girls
me: If you still single at 32 should you care if the guy is in a relationship or married?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: yes, you demonstrating lower value if you do that
It’s like saying "I can’t get anyone better so I will take someone I shouldn’t be with"
me: I agree you should not lower your standards, always value yourself.
me: How do you feel about Cougars?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: I don’t mind if a woman is older.
you can have connections with people no matter what the age, lot of people say they want partners that is between so and so an age, but you limiting your chances of you already discrediting people you never met
me: Do you prefer Wildcats/Cute Kitties?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: cute kitties
me: What’s the most important thing that a girl needs to have, personality wise?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: er...
Humour - that’s important especially for me. lol
me: Last but not least - Is there such a thing as woman/girl who is too smart?
The Scarlet Pimpernel: no, there is no such thing. The problem with anyone that is "smart" is the arrogance that comes along with it. If a person is smart and humble then that’s all good
me: Thank you Scarlet Pimpernel
The Scarlet Pimpernel: THE
The scarlet
lol
me: hahaha
I do apologise.
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Well Ladies there you have it. So if you are going out on the hunt, all slutty wild cat or a conservative kitty. Remember to have a sence of humour and don’t be a moaner on the first attack.
I say be true to who you are. Many of us are in such a rush to find the “The One” we sometimes act a fool and loose who we are. There is all this unnecessary pressure and limitations we put on ourselves.
Oi the scary thought of settling!!! Enjoy your Sigledom and live to the fullest. Things will always happen, when it is meant to happen.
My friend Deshni said something very profound, over supper the other night.
“We might have 30/40/50 years ahead of us, why are we stressing?”
-Mwwwshims! Happy hunting… oh! Don’t forget to throw the hints-
"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who'll decide where to go."
- Dr. Seuss
